Education and Coaching 

Are you wanting to learn a new kinky skill or take your play to the new levels? Or are you a complete newbie who wants to play safely and learn to negotiate? Do you simply wish to learn more about the history of BDSM and Leather culture? Or are you on a journey of self discovery and find that its time to interrogate your own sexuality? 

Sometimes seeing a professional can be about getting an amazing sexy play experience, and sometimes its about wanting to learn more. Thanks to the decade plus in both the Leather community and as a professional, I have tons of first hand knowledge I would love to pass on to you! 

 

One to One Education

If you are looking for one to one education outside of a scene then this is for you!

If you want to learn while we play please just book a regular session with Me. This is for those who just want to learn outside of play. 

One to one education is available virtually or in-person in the SF Bay Area.

 

Topics I especially love to teach and talk about:

  • Piercing/cutting/blood play basics 

  • Whips

  • Negotiation and Setting a scene

  • D/s in Polyamory

  • Healthy D/s Dynamics

  • Age play

  • Impact play

  • Safety Basics

  • Toy cleaning and care

  • Leather History / Gay Leather history

  • BDSM history

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BDSM Coaching

While this can overlap with general education, coaching means that you are looking to make a larger/longer commitment to growing with in yourself and your BDSM identity. As a Dominant I have always wanted My submissives and playthings to be the best they can, whatever that means for them and at a certain point that started to extend into goal driven education, skill building etc with intention. I work with them to create a personal action plans that are both personally and kink growth oriented, with reward and punishment for staying on goals or agreed upon guidelines.

 

We work together to keep them on their path and celebrated in fun ways when they reach goals. And the results are always so wonderful to see! I decided to offer this to those who are not in a D/s dynamic with me but still want to work towards specific goals in my expertise.