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Are you wanting to learn a new kinky skill or take your play to the new levels? Or are you a complete newbie who wants to play safely and learn to negotiate? Do you simply wish to learn more about the history of BDSM and Leather culture? Or are you on a journey of self discovery and find that its time to interrogate your own sexuality? 

 

Sometimes seeing a professional can be about getting an amazing sexy play experience, and sometimes its about wanting to learn more. Thanks to the decade plus in both the Leather community and as a professional, I have tons of first hand knowledge I would love to pass on to you! 

Education and Coaching 

If you are looking for one to one education outside of a scene then this is for you!

 

If you want to learn while we play please just book a regular session with me. This is for those who just want to learn outside of play. 

 

One to one education is available virtually or with a well planed Covid safe in person encounter in the SF Bay Area.

One to One Education

Topics I especially love to teach and talk about:

  • Piercing/cutting/blood play basics 

  • Whips

  • Negotiation and Setting a scene

  • D/s in Polyamory

  • Healthy D/s Dynamics

  • Age play

  • Impact play

  • Safety Basics

  • Toy cleaning and care

  • Leather History / Gay Leather history

  • BDSM history

 

I am also happy to discuss the dynamics behind anything that I list in my fav play section here

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BDSM Coaching

While this can overlap with general education, coaching means that you are looking to make a larger/longer commitment to growing with in yourself and your BDSM identity. As a Dominant I have always wanted my submissives and playthings to be the best they can, whatever that means for them and at a certain point that started to extend into goal driven education, skill building etc with intention. I work with them to create a personal action plans that are both personally and kink growth oriented, with reward and punishment for staying on goals or agreed upon guidelines. We work together to keep them on their path and celebrated in fun ways when they reach goals. And the results are always so wonderful to see! I decided to offer this to those who are not in a D/s dynamic with me but still want to work towards specific goals in my expertise. 

 

*If you are a new D/s client and would like to incorporate an action plan into our play that can absolutely happen as well!

 

I will work with you to create personal goals around BDSM, polyamory, learning leather culture/history, learning new skills, BDSM in dating and self love. We will make an action plan specifically for you and your goals and meet/chat throughout the month to help keep you on track. I am here to be your guide to realizing a more fulfilling kink life. 

 

For some people this guiding looks like weekly Skype calls, for others it is journaling and getting feedback through emailing, for some it is texting daily to stay on task, for others it is a combo of something in between. We will figure out what works best for your growth at this time and then will modify things as you meet your goals. I will be here to give you direction, education when it is appropriate for me to, make suggestions and give feedback. 

 

Since I am not a therapist, I recommend that you are prepared for this journey and ready to take care of yourself if anything comes up for you during the process. I bring my knowledge from the ~15 years of experience I have as a queer, poly kinkster and Professional Dominatrix. Think of me as your Dominant support system, here to keep you on task, help you find direction and talk things out when its tough.  

 

Reach out and lets chat about what this might look like for you!